Reviews
There are so many incredible books available at the moment that it is impossible to read them all, no matter how hard I try! Here are my thoughts about some of the books I have read and how I think they could be used in school as well as Q and A sessions with authors and illustrators.
Blog Tour: The Octopus, Dadu and Me
I am absolutely to be starting my Blog Tours this year by being part of this one for ‘The Octopus, Dadu and Me’. I freely admit that I shed more than a few tears over this one and really recommend it as an excellent read, but also as a book to support those who find themselves in Sashi’s situation.
In this post, Lucy Ann Unwin shares her Top Five Books to help children relate to an older generation- excellent choices one and all- and I would like to suggest one of my own, ‘Wilfred Gordon McDonald Partridge’ by Mem Fox. Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge is a little boy who lives next door to a nursing home. When he finds out that his special friend, Miss Nancy Alison Delacourt Cooper, is losing her memory, he tries to discover what a memory is and help Miss Nancy find hers once more. It is the most delightful story, showing the warmth of a ‘cross generational’ relationship and the special bond which can be formed.
Top 5: Books to Help Kids Relate to an Older Generation
In The Octopus, Dadu and Me I’m celebrating one of my favourite relationships — between children and their grandparents.
You can never take too much time thinking about what things might be like from an older person’s perspective — whether it’s a grandparent, neighbour, family friend, or just someone you happen to meet — I think these books really encourage that…
1. The Tale of Truthwater Lake, by Emma Carroll
This book reminds me of when you see black and white photos from the past that have been re-coloured. Stories set in historical periods can feel like those monochrome pictures: safely assigned to “The Past”.
The magic of The Tale of Truthwater Lake is that a girl from the near future actually becomes a girl from the past … she sees through her eyes, uses her body, feels her feelings and learns from her strength. Like those coloured in photos.
2. Bad Nana, That’s Snow Business!, by Sophy Henn
For younger readers, you can’t do better than Bad Nana. She has long been a favourite in our house and I fully aspire to be just like Bad Nana if I ever have grandchildren of my own!
The joy here is that Bad Nana is just a brilliant character full stop, and as far away from stereotypes as you could hope. In this particular book of the series, she gets bit carried away with her passions and makes as many bad choices as any child protagonist might!
3. Keep Dancing, Lizzie Chu, by Maisie Chan
To start with, it’s not that instinctive to feel empathy for Wai Gong — main character Lizzie Chu’s grandparent and carer — as he’s not doing a very good job at looking after her. But Lizzie loves and cares about her wai gong, so we do too.
As the story goes on, the reader can’t help but feel for him as his grief and dementia combine. But it’s also a joy to see his enthusiasm in the things he loves, and his love and pride for Lizzie is incredibly moving.
4. Grandpa Frank's Great Big Bucket List, by Jenny Pearson
This book is just hilarious and joyous, and takes a refreshingly direct approach to helping kids relate to an older generation, while being packed full of charm, humour and adventure. There’s even a chapter called: “Never Underestimate Old People”.
At the end, it includes a quiz about impressive old people and things you can do to help the older generations in your community.
5. Wished, by Lissa Evans
At the start of Wished, characters Ed and Roo are bored at the prospect of spending time with their elderly neighbour Miss Filey… they marvel at her ancient telly and her assumption that “WiFi” is a type of biscuit.
In the end, the transformation in their relationship is a total joy as through the book we see Miss Filey — Rosanna — as the fully rounded character she is, with a fierce sense of adventure, hopes and dreams still to achieve and friendships still to make.
I hope you enjoyed the list! I like to think The Octopus Dadu and Me would fit here too. Dadu means the world to my main character Sashi. When he develops dementia, her world starts to unravel.
She projects how she thinks her dadu must feel, alone in a care home, with how an octopus must feel, trapped in a tank — which is why she tries to set the octopus free. Hopefully, by the end, she’s gained a greater understanding of each of their lives, and how she can love and help them best.
Thank you so much to Lucy Ann Unwin for this excellent post and to the team at UCLan for inviting me to be part of the tour. ‘The Octopus, Dadu and Me’ is a gorgeous book, perfect for encouraging empathy and understanding, perfect for paving the way for conversations, perfect for enjoying. It really is a must read- make sure you do!
The Octopus, Dadu and Me Lucy Ann Unwin, illustrated by Lucy Mulligan
UCLan Publishing ISBN: 978-1915235039
Keep Dancing, Lizzie Chu
Lizzie lives with her grandfather, Wai Gong, in Glasgow. Since the death of his wife, Wai Gong has been acting a little strangely and although she is only 12, Lizzie has been keeping things going at home, constantly worrying about her grandfather. When Lizzie finds out that her Grandma Kam has left her a birthday present of tickets to the tea dance at the Tower Ballroom in Blackpool, she sees this as a way of getting her beloved grandfather back to his normal self and so comes up with a madcap plan for the trip of a lifetime. What could possibly go wrong..?
This book is a joy to read from start to finish! In the story, Maisie Chan has created an amazing cast of characters, full of life and personality, with Lizzie at the heart. Thoughtful and caring, Lizzie is is determined to take care of her grandfather who has become the centre of her world since the death of her grandmother. Desperate to help him cope with his grief, she has taken on all the daily chores whilst trying to keep up with her school work. Their shared passion for ballroom dancing and watching ‘Strictly’ reflects the close bond often shared between grandparents and grandchildren, offering both humour and pathos to the story. Tyler and Chi, Lizzie’s friends, are instantly loveable; supportive and caring, they help Lizzie in her quest to get to Blackpool, but also gently try to help her recognise that she shouldn’t be trying to do everything herself. Friendship and loyalty are key to the story.
One of Maisie Chan’s many strengths as a writer is her ability to mingle many ‘themes’ without seeming to do so. She manages to make the reader empathise with not only a young girl reeling from grief, but also an elderly man; consider how quickly we can misjudge people on appearances; think about the importance of being yourself; include diverse family situations and raise the issue of the casual racism faced by Lizzie and her friends on a regular basis. There is so much to think about here- whilst enjoying a cracking story.
I really love the inclusion of traditional stories in the novel and the fact that Lizzie shares these with her friends as they have been shared with her, introducing many to a wealth of new stories and cultural richness.
There is so much to recommend ‘Keep Dancing, Lizzie Chu’- it is poignant, funny, warm-hearted and has the perfect ending! Definitely one for the library!
Keep Dancing, Lizzie Chu Maisie Chan
Piccadilly ISBN: 978-1800781610
You can read my review of ‘Danny Chung Does NOT Do Maths’ here.